This Matrix is something I learned about yesterday at Tut.com’s Playing the Matrix event in Vancouver.
Now, if you’ve been around this blog a while or we’re connected on twitter / elsewhere on social media, you KNOW how obsessed I am with my daily TUT notes from the Universe.
They are personally written for me, just me, not the thousands of people they go out to every day, who just get it incidentally. You see, me & Mike, we’ve got a deal.
(For those who don’t know what I’m talking about – just sign up now for Notes from the Universe & thank me later).
I have a feeling the Matrix just changed my manifesting forever.
This was a workshop quite unlike most others – it had to be, it’s TUT! – and even though most of the concepts were already known to me, something about the way Mike presented them flipped a switch.
Here it is then, in the simplest way I can explain.
The Matrix goes from left to right. On the left of the manifestation scale, the # 1 thing we all want, is:
Right after happiness come other things like love, peace, prosperity, contentment, freedom, passion, fun, laughter etc, which take high precedence in our lives.
These are the core inner desires behind all your outer desires.
For example, travel and see the world: outer desire.
How you will feel when you do that, in my case : excited to explore new cultures, be connected, appreciate beauty, THOSE are the real desires.
Mike also included 5 areas of our lives on the left (or middle) of the matrix, including livelihood, relationships and abundance.
These are the desires where your focus needs to be if you TRULY want to manifest easily, quickly & amazingly!
- Stay open to the form, the how’s, the who’s, the where’s, the what’s.
- Know how you want to feel & find ways to feel like that now.
But what do you do instead?
You get drawn into the right side of the Matrix, into varying degrees of wants and desires, ranging from career, love, money, friends, travel to specific jobs, employers, people and things.
When you’re focused on the stuff on the right, esp the furthest on the Matrix (THIS girl, THAT job, exactly $10,000 from lotto), you’re limiting yourself, limiting the Universe and limiting all opportunities that are trying to come your way.
Say you really want a relationship and you’re just hell bent on having Jimmy as your man, Jimmy who works in the same office as you and doesn’t know you exist, or Jimmy who doesn’t feel the same way about you.
Note: I don’t know any Jimmy’s!
By focusing on a specific person (come on, who hasn’t done this one time or the other in their lives ;)), you’re saying you don’t want anyone else cos your limited life experience can’t even begin to imagine that someone wayyyy more perfect for you, who is everything you want and don’t even KNOW you want, is coming your way.
The more you place limits, timelines and caveats on your wishes, the harder you’re making it to manifest & closer you live on the edge of disappointment. Especially if you’re attached to those desires.
Yeah I know what you’re thinking now – but what about vision boards, goals, being specific about numbers, dates etc?
There’s HUGE power in setting dates as in “millionaire by 2011” as long as you’re not attached to it happening or even how it happens!
If you HAVE to be attached, be attached to the left side of the matrix and DETACH from the right.
State exactly what you want, use specifics to get into the feeling place of what you want, and let events unfold. This isn’t to say don’t take any action at all, unless that’s what feels right and good.
If you want to do this effortlessly instead of pushing boulders up a mountain, be smart about it! Use leverage, take tiny actions. To quote a TUTism,
You don’t take “baby steps” for the distance they cover, but to put yourself within reach of life’s magic.
Just like you don’t hoist your sails to move the boat, but to put yourself within reach of the wind.
Hoist, baby, hoist, baby, 1, 2, 3, 4 –
ps: Just like you don’t sing in the car to be heard… Why do you do that?
How empowering & freeing is that!?
To know that you don’t have to do it alone, that taking steps aren’t about doing it all but getting you to the tipping point?
And that if you just keep showing up, day after day, one day things will change so fast it will seem like magic and you’ll wonder what just happened!
Believe this now – people, things and events are conspiring in your favour.
Trust that there is a LOT going on behind the scenes that you don’t know about, and don’t need to know about.
All you have to do is decide what you want in general terms, get specific about your desires only if that feels good, and keep doing one little thing a day towards your dreams. Then, in no uncertain terms, it.will.happen.
Manifest in the Matrix!
General to Specific. Left to Right.
Check out Mike Dooley’s Matrix tour coming to a city near you – the stories he shared about his life & adventures are totally inspiring and FUN and this event is just the coolest.
Over to you! What attachments did you have to give up to manifest something you wanted? Have you had any experiences to the contrary? What are your easiest manifestations and what’s really been hard for you so far? Look forward to your thoughts & comments.