3 Ways to Take Care of your Heart this Holiday Season

There are days I drop words of comfort on myself like falling leaves and remember that it is enough to be taken care of by my self. – Brian Andreas. Love can bring up all sorts of stuff.. elation, confusion, excitement, fear. As if that is not enough to have on your plate, let’s add […]

On Sabotaging Love with Drama + 7 Ways to Raise Your Love-O-Meter

When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you’d like them to be. – Leo Tolstoy. How Much Love Can You Stand? Author Gay Hendricks teaches that we all have an inner thermostat setting that determines how much goodness, abundance, love we allow ourselves. When we exceed our inner setting, […]

On Love, Relationships, and Second Chances..

Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do… but how much love we put in that action. – Mother Teresa. (This is a post by Kimberly Riggins). I used to think my relationship could withstand the test of time. I believed we were strong, solid, and unbreakable.  Boy, did I have […]

5 Ways to Turn Grief into Growth

5 Ways to turn Grief into Growth

“The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?” – Kahlil Gibran. Sometimes, life can seem hard. Unfair. Sad.  Image: jingkay2008 (creative commons, flickr) (This is a guest post from Alana Shereen […]


Words and actions. Like arrows piercing your heart Will leave it riddled with holes. So that light can come streaming in And explode into a thousand starbursts. Soothing. Caressing. Purifying. Love will break your heart. Love will heal your heart. You’ll protect yourself. You’ll disarm yourself. Questions will haunt you. Why me? Why not me? […]

Attracting a mate – Give It Up or Wait It Out?

This is a topic that has been talked about in earlier posts (not necessarily related to relationships though) and was brought to my attention again recently. You see, it’s that time of the year that I’ve been getting quite a few readers asking me about the best way to manifest a relationship (just something about the […]